wow that would be a tuff call ......first thing i would do is appreciate and applaud them fer their honesty in telling me.....for what i would do then......well, i havent been in that situation before so i dont really know how i would handle it..........well, my best friend was getting married to her so called man of her dreams...was sleeping around on her from a girl he met at a bar..then caught herpes and passed it on to my friend...situation is a little far from yours...all I can do is be her friend because she was the victim.... Did you know that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men have it?
Genital herpes provides a large social stigma, and provides high probability that your partner is a lot embarrass and worrying so much about the fact that he or she has herpes.
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She might feel a little better once she knows what she's dealing with. Herpes is one of your least bit worries when it comes to STDs there are so many worst ones out there..you tell that to her...a model who is so stuck on herself and body.. Well they would no longer be a prospective make-out partner let alone sexual partner I don't care about misconceptions and the fact that it won't kill you like other STDs can, I still think it is nasty and wouldn't want to catch a case of it... I like the fact I never get sick and would hate to catch something like that that can spring up on you at any time.. we abstained till she was checked out and split before the results came in. This young lady contracted it from her partner during what she thought was a 3 year monogomous relationship.
even coldsores creep me out I remember seeing the pictures in some of my mom's medical nursing books (I used to try and gross out my friends with the pictures as a kid)and then again when I was in college and was taking some anatomy/physiology and other bio related courses I got to see some more of the outbreaks... i studied up on it and found there are shields available to prevent infection. supposedly they work but i still would be leary of it. Apparently he was doing a little sleeping around and brought home someone else's luggage. don't think the prevalence is as high as 1 in4, although it might be that within a large city..even so, if a person is nice enuff to disclose it then its up to the other partner as to what the next step should having this infection, i would have to decline and probably end the relationship as much as it may hurt!
Dating someone with herpes is a big decision to make.