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When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital.
I used to suffer from a similar anxiety until a friend introduced me to a world of pickup, seduction, and social dynamics between men and women. The more women you approach in a short period of time, the more socially adept you will become. Congruence simply means an alignment with your thoughts, words, and actions. Don’t approach a girl as “a friend” when really you can’t wait for the opportunity to get her in bed. When you are a man of integrity, a man who knows himself, you build attraction and trust with those you approach. Do not be attached to either your expectations or her reactions, good or bad.
This is not the “seedy and lying bastard who just uses women for sex” form of seduction. Your body language will reflect a person who is relaxed and comfortable with himself. A rule of thumb is that one-third of women will be receptive, one-third of women will shut you down, and one-third will need to know more before deciding. Just like every woman isn’t your ideal, don’t expect to be every woman’s ideal. Leave the gentleman bullsh*t out if you are using it as a tactic to get into her pants—she’ll spot it in a heartbeat. Christian R Long is a Flow Coach and Pranic Healer here to assist you in having your perfect day.
Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful.
While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.
By being honest about who you are—to yourself and the world—you'll exude an inner confidence that will effortlessly draw women to you like never before. THE SHY GUY You're the guy who just wants a steady girlfriend—so much so that you may drive a girl away with your tendency to smother early on, or end up missing out on fun with the guys once you've got her. Be honest with yourself about your goals for long-term monogamy; despite what your buddies may say, there's nothing wrong with wanting what you want. That means no more taking a girl to an event such as a wedding just so you don't have to go alone—even though you have no interest in pursuing anything more with her.
If you do so, you just may lose an opportunity to meet your next girlfriend.
But your outgoing personality, wild ways, and desire to have good times can make women feel like they will always take second place to your ego and your lifestyle. You have all the tools you need to score—now you just need to use them to your advantage.Stay in each conversation a little longer and concentrate on listening more by asking open-ended questions—for example, "What made you consider becoming an OB-GYN? That allows her to feel like you're giving her all your attention while still allowing you to dictate the flow of the conversation. Don't tone down your personality—turn it up a notch.